The Beginner Workout Routine for Moms: Build Muscle, Burn Fat & Stop Wasting Time

Let’s be honest: trying to start a workout routine as a busy mom can feel like you’re trying to train for the Olympics while simultaneously keeping tiny humans alive, fed, and not jumping off the back of the couch.

Honestly, I don’t even try with that last one anymore. #boymom. 

If you’re wondering how to build muscle, lose fat, and feel confident in your workout routine without overhauling your entire life-this post is for you.

Start with the Big Lifts (They’re Worth It)

If you're new to strength training, the best place to start is with compound movements also known as “the big lifts.” These exercises work multiple muscles at once (aka more bang for your buck).

Here’s the main (lower body) ones I teach my clients:

• Back Squats

• Deadlifts

• Hip Thrusts

  
  

These aren’t just fancy gym terms. These lifts are critical movement patterns that you use every day and you want to train for a functional life.

AKA keeping up with your kids/grandkids. 

And don’t worry-you don’t need to be perfect at these from day one. Form matters, but you can learn it with practice. 

In fact, inside my program Fit Lifestyle in a Box, I break these down step-by-step so you’re not limiting your progress from fear of injury. 

The #1 Secret to Progress? Progressive Overload

Let me guess: you’ve taken a bunch of workout classes, sweated your face off, and still wondered why your body isn’t really changing.

Here’s the secret sauce: progressive overload.

That’s just a fancy way of saying: do a little more over time.

➡️ That might look like:

• Lifting heavier weights

• Doing more reps

• Decreasing your rest time

• Slowing down your reps (up for 1 second, down for 2, that kind of thing)

Why does this matter? 

Because your body adapts.

If you’re not giving it a new challenge, it has no reason to grow stronger or leaner. So even if a class is “fun,” if you’re doing the same 5lb dumbbell curls every week, your muscles are basically on vacation.

Tracking your workouts (I like to use the Strong App) helps you see the changes.

This is super encouraging because you can see progress in the gym from week to week. Talk about a confidence boost!

How Often Should You Lift? (Spoiler: Not Every Day)

Here’s the part that might surprise you: you don’t need to work out every single day to see results.

In fact, for most beginners, 2–3 strength training workouts per week is perfect. That’s it.

You could spend just 2 hours a week in the gym and:

• Build lean muscle

• Lose more fat

• Boost your energy

• Feel strong and capable again

👉 This is the exact structure I teach inside Fit Lifestyle in a Box. You get a plug-and-play workout plan designed to fit into a mom’s real schedule-not a 20 year old fitness influencer who’s never had kids. 

Gym vs. Home Workouts (and When It’s Time to Level Up)

Starting with at-home workouts? Great. You can absolutely start building a habit and learning movement patterns from the comfort of your living room.

But if you want to keep progressing long term, you’ll eventually need access to heavier equipment.

That doesn’t mean you have to live in the squat rack, but it does mean:

• Dumbbells that go above 15 lbs

• A barbell, bench, leg press

• A space where you can challenge your muscles consistently

If the idea of walking into the weight section makes your palms sweat, I’ve got you.

You can grab this totally free “No-Fear Weight Room Tour” video that helps you walk in like you own the place. Because I’ve been there too-you can do this!

What About Cardio?

Let me be clear: I’m not anti-cardio. I’m anti-cardio as the only strategy.

You don’t need to spend 45 minutes on the treadmill 5 days a week to lose fat.

In fact, if your goal is fat loss, muscle gain, and long-term body change? Strength training should be the foundation.

You can sprinkle in walking, biking, or whatever other form you like, but cardio alone won’t build the muscle that shapes your body or increases your metabolism.

What You Actually Need in a Beginner Workout Routine for Moms

Let’s recap, because I know your toddler probably interrupted you at least twice while reading this.

Here’s what your beginner workout routine should include:

✅ 2–3 strength training sessions a week

With a focus on big lifts like squats, deadlifts, and hip thrusts.

✅ Progressive overload

Track your reps, weight, and effort. Small increases lead to big results.

✅ Flexibility to fit your life

You don’t need hours and hours in the gym. One hour, max and that includes stretching, warm up, rolling out. If you watch a show on Netflix you have that amount of time. 

✅ Confidence and a plan

Stop guessing. Start lifting with intention.

If you are curious about what it would be like to work with me 1:1 in my program, I invite you to book a free discovery call here and let’s figure out if it’s the right next step for you.

-Rachel

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• Why Your Workout Routine Isn’t Helping You Lose Weight (And What to Do Instead)